Why Most People Don’t Get Promoted: It’s Not About Working Harder, It’s About Alignment

unboundascent
Mar 16
3 min read

Have you ever wondered why the hardest working person on your team gets passed over for promotions? It’s not always about effort. Often, the real reason is a misalignment between their career goals and their authentic selves.

We’ve all seen it: hard-working, talented individuals who pour endless hours into their work and still find themselves passed over for promotions. It’s easy to assume the reason is a lack of effort or skill. But the truth is, the underlying cause is often something far deeper, the lack of alignment between what they’re doing and what they truly want.

Most of the time, people go for roles that they feel are expected of them or roles that seem like the next logical step in their career progression. But these roles don’t always align with who they truly are, what excites them, or what energizes them.

Here’s why this happens, and how it directly impacts your ability to get promoted, even after working so hard:

1. Misalignment Between Your True Self and the Role You Seek

If you’re pursuing a role that doesn’t align with your core values, strengths, or passions, it can be incredibly difficult to bring the passion and energy necessary to succeed. Even if you’re doing everything "right" — working hard, meeting benchmarks — your performance can feel flat, or dispassionate to others.

Solution: Take a step back and reflect on whether the role you’re pursuing excites you. Does it align with your values and play to your strengths? If not, it’s hard to sustain the energy required for long-term success.

2. Lack of Visibility and Strategic Communication

Working hard isn’t enough if no one sees your contributions. Many high performers forget to communicate their wins and successes, which can prevent them from being recognized for their leadership potential.

Solution: Proactively communicate your results in ways that align with your company’s goals. Ensure that your value is visible, without it feeling like self-promotion.

3. Overlooking the Importance of Building Relationships

Promotions are not only about merit, they also depend on the relationships you build. If you’re not engaging with key decision-makers or actively building rapport with your peers, you risk being overlooked despite your contributions.

Solution: Focus on networking and building relationships with mentors, peers, and decision-makers. Make sure you’re part of conversations that matter, and seek regular feedback from those who can help you grow.

4. Fear of Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone

Many people fail to step into leadership roles because they’re too comfortable in their current position. The transition requires taking on more responsibility and embracing new challenges.

Solution: Push yourself to grow beyond your comfort zone. Take on additional responsibilities or volunteer for cross-functional projects to develop leadership skills and embrace challenges.

5. Undeveloped Skills for the Next Level

As you progress in your career, the technical expertise you once relied on becomes less important. Leadership, strategic thinking, and other skills are what truly propel you to the next level.

Solution: Continuously develop the leadership skills required for the role you want. Invest in training or mentorship to stay ahead of the curve.

6. The Role Doesn’t Fit With the Company’s Needs

Sometimes, external factors come into play. The company may have different priorities or simply not need the role you’re aiming for. While this is frustrating, it's important to understand the broader company vision.

Solution: Regularly engage with your manager to understand the company’s strategy and goals. Align your aspirations with the company’s evolving needs and be adaptable.

Final Thoughts

The reason many don’t get promoted isn’t always about working harder or lacking potential, it’s often about alignment. By ensuring your career goals align with your strengths, values, and the needs of your company, you can increase your chances of success and build a fulfilling career path.

Are you aligned with your career goals? What steps will you take today to prepare for the promotion you deserve? Let’s discuss in the comments.

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